The Techniques of Oral Intercourse
Usually the penis can be brought up to stand at right angles with the rest of a man’s body when he is on his back, without causing him any discomfort whatsoever. Having this knowledge at her fingertips, the woman will adjust her fellatio position accordingly.
Most couples agree that simultaneous oral caresses are exciting only just short of the excitement which the penis in the vagina gives rise to.
In order to carry out this simultaneous stimulation, one or other variations of the position known as “69” must be used.
One variant is for the couple to lie side by side with their mouths within easy reach of each other’s genitals. It is a restful position, but it has the drawback that the man is not very well placed to caress the clitoris and vagina. It’s a bit difficult to explain why this is, but try it and you will see what I mean.
By far the most satisfactory “69” position is when the man lies on his back and the woman crouches astride and above him. Her clitoris and vagina are then directly over his face and her own mouth is within easy reach of his penis.
If she lets it lie flat on his belly she can tongue his frenulum and the underside of his penis, and when she wants to suck his cock, she can lift it up just sufficiently to get it into her mouth, or, if a greater angle is not painful, so high that she can milk it directly from above.
Whether oral caresses are going to be used as foreplay or as an alternative to penis-vagina contact, i.e., continued to orgasm, before taking the penis into her mouth the woman gives the frenulum, penis-head and coronal rim a warming up by licking them, or teasing them with rapidly moving tongue-tip. Read about the merits of oral sex and vaginal sex here.
This can be followed by a number of varieties of caresses, as, for example, running the tongue round the edge of the rim, the tongue-tip under the edge of the rim, licking the frenulum and penis-tip with the tongue, and very, very lightly nipping or rolling the frenulum, between lip-protected teeth. Blowing on the penis-head and under the rim is also extremely stimulating.
When the woman eventually takes the penis into her mouth, she should take as much in as she can. Simultaneously with her sucking of the penis, she must move her mouth up and down the shaft and head. Most men like to control these movements, so if her partner puts his hands on her head to do this, she should follow the rhythm of his hands.
Since the penis must be held away from his belly, in order for this maneuver to be carried out, the woman should move the hand holding it up and down that part of the penis which will not go into her mouth.
With the other hand she should fondle his balls—again very, very lightly. If his balls are not too large, she should take one or both into her mouth from time to time and suck them very gently, Most men find this extremely arousing, but good care must be taken not to nip them with the teeth or suck on them too hard.
I want to point out hos good this can be for a man who has delayed ejaculation. This is often about a low level of arousal – and the man who is stimulated by his partner in this way may reach orgasm much more easily than with normal sexual intercourse. It comes highly recommended for men with delayed ejaculation. If you don’t know what that is, read more about it here. (Basically it is a condition in which a man cannot ejaculate during sex.)
As the man’s arousal sensations begin to build up, the woman will notice that his balls now and again move up towards the root of his penis, pause there for a second or two, and then move down again. When he is approaching the point of no return he will begin to breathe heavily, and will automatically push up and lower his pelvis rhythmically.
At the same time his balls will rise and lower more frequently, and they will not now descend so low as they did previously.
When this begins to happen the woman will know that he is going to come within 30 to 60 seconds.
Will she let him ejaculate in her mouth?
Well, I am quite convinced that if it were not for the pulsating of the penis as it squirts out the semen, most women would be unaware that her partner was ejaculating into her mouth. However, I must concede that some men’s semen has a distinctly acid taste which very slightly stings the back of the throat as it is swallowed.
If the woman is not keen, for this or any other reason, to accept the semen in her mouth, as soon as his balls begin to get agitated she can withdraw her mouth and finish him off with her fingers.
However, if she does this she must deprive him of some of his thrill! If the semen tastes at all, it is not a strong taste, and a drink of water— or champagne! — will immediately dispel any slight stinging sensations there may be. Certainly, swallowing semen never did any woman any harm.